Cold Shower... It May Just Change Your Life?

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The probability that your idea is intelligent at the core of its recognition is very likely to be a stupid idea. But do you have the willpower to endure extended periods of time missing, failing, feeling embarrassed? Do you have the strength to see your idea through? Are you capable of learning what is working and what isn’t working? Can you let go of attachment? This will be deep settling questions as we already acknowledged that your initial idea tends to be cloudy. This lack of clarity is why the first line of feedback comes back through humiliation. It is our duty to first understand and articulate our thinking for ourselves. When we take that into the world we are met with a new layer of minds that now need to be changed. Do not feel overwhelmed or inadequate during these times. Allow yourself to listen, hear and digest. 

 Maybe an unorthodox way of improving this skill, but here is how ya do it. 

Take a cold shower ...

 The cold teaches you many of these lessons. You will not win this fight with the cold. But can you face what you fear? Can you sit with it and remain calm in chaos? Are you able to feel and understand what is happening? Do you have the strength to be wrong about something?
One Love, Harv

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